Friday, November 8, 2013

October 7, 2013 Club Meetings

The following is a summary of the minutes from our October 7th meeting.
 Meeting Location:   The Hillsdale Mall, San Mateo, CA     6:15 p.m. – 7:30 p.m.

Attendees:
Present at the meeting were: Samya Boxberger-Oberoi, Emily, Lara Miller, David Nazzaro, Lara Miller, Maia, Sharon Pappas, Ruth Wadsworth and Venkat Senapati.  There were no guests.

Ruth was the Toastmaster; Samya was the General Evaluator; Sharon was the Grammarian; Maia was the Ah Counter; Emily was the Table Topics Master; and Venkat was the Timer.

Samya gave a brief business update and introduced Maia as the newest member to the club.

The theme of the meeting was: “Discovery”; the word of the day was: “Horizons”.  Ruth spoke about the theme, relating it to the upcoming Columbus Day and the discovery of America.  Ruth gave a little information about tonight’s meeting, offering to add a speech if there was extra time since there was only one speaker on the agenda for the evening. 

David, the Evaluator, gave an introduction outlining the speech criteria, including that the speech should incorporate techniques using movement: gestures, facial expressions and eye contact.  David also explained that because the speech was supposed to be 5 to 7 minutes and a toast is 2 to 3 minutes, Lara was including an introduction with her speech to qualify for the right amount of time.

Speaker #1:  Lara:  “Cheers”
Competent Communication Series, Project #5:  “Your Body Speaks”

Lara’s speech began with an introduction about her research into how to make a good wedding toast.  Lara shared a few examples of bad toasts and then outlined steps in what makes a good toast:
1.       Be focused
2.       Be gracious
3.       Be brief

Lara (with Ruth’s help, thank you Ruth!) shared sparkling cider and water with the members of the meeting for the practice toast which she read.  In the actual toast Lara shared the story of how she met the bride, adventures in the years that have passed and how happy the bride has been since she met the groom.  Lara ended with a toast to the happy couple, which the rest of the club chimed in on.

Evaluation:    David evaluated Lara’s speech.  He shared that he first heard of toastmasters because someone he knew started attending toastmasters meetings a year before a much-anticipated family wedding and, as a result of all the practice, made a memorable and enjoyable speech, thus showing David the benefits of toastmasters.  

David said that Lara followed the criteria of the speech well, walking close to the audience, and making good eye contact during the speech.  David said that Lara looked at her notes more during the introduction, but when Lara began the toast, she was much better, not relying on the notes during that portion. David said that bringing cider to share was a nice touch.

Group Evaluation:   

Ruth also noted the use of notes during the intro, and having the actual toast at the end was a good way to end the speech.  Venkat said the speech was an example of research and demonstration.  Maia liked the way that the story of meeting in the darkroom was interwoven through the toast, with related metaphors.  Emily gave recommendations on handling notes, microphone and “toasting” glass.  Sharon indicated Lara needed to slow down and enunciate more.  David further added that the speech had two personalities:  The introduction used notes but the actual toast was more natural.  David also encouraged Lara to work on tone of voice. Samya liked the speech and agreed with the comments. 

Table Topics:  Emily hosted the Table Topics.  All the participants were within time and used the word of the day.  Maia proved to be an attentive ah counter, making this a very lucrative meeting.  Samya won the ribbon for the best table topics speaker. 

General Evaluation:  Samya reminded the group to be on time and that it is generally the responsibility of the toastmaster to fill roles for a meeting.  Samya reminded the club that no meetings would be held on 10/14 and 10/21.  Samya stated this “break” would be a great time to work on speeches for the next few meetings.

Samya closed the meeting.


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